tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-66905885374011511052024-03-21T07:11:32.440-04:00mae + noliaAshleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.comBlogger377125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-11070286143941169532014-09-17T14:43:00.001-04:002014-09-17T15:02:52.748-04:00#influenceconf meet + greetToday, I'm <a href="http://theinfluencenetwork.com/2014/09/influence-conference-meet-greet/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=influence-conference-meet-greet" target="_blank">linking up</a> to share a bit about myself as I prepare to head to the <a href="http://www.theinfluenceconference.com/" target="_blank">Influence Conference</a> in just about a week. My oft-neglected blog has been a little lonely lately, so this link up is a good excuse to wake it up!<br />
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I'm Ashley. Wife, momma, entrepreneur, lover of all things gold and patterned. I'm an extroverted introvert and love to make lists and load things onto my plate, but I also thrive on down time and dreaming.<br />
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<b>The part of the conference I'm most excited about:<br />
</b>I can't wait to connect with old friends and make some new. I'm also so looking forward to soaking in wisdom and truth and inspiration from the speakers and conference leaders.<br />
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I'm also quite excited for the <a href="http://www.theinfluenceconference.com/2013/06/the-sashes-market.html" target="_blank">Sashes Market</a> - so <a href="http://instagram.com/deziraelrm" target="_blank">Dez</a> and I are definitely not leaving home without our <a href="http://instagram.com/wellpresspaper" target="_blank">Well-Press</a> goodies, including our <a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/201577834/influence-conference-pre-sale-special?" target="_blank">Influence Conference limited edition Well-Thought notebook</a> (which, by the way, is up for pre-sale right now, and we are offering a discount when you purchase before the conference)! I was a vendor in the market last year as well (selling my <a href="http://etsy.com/shop/maeandnoliashop" target="_blank">jewelry</a>), so I'm anxious to see how it goes this time around. We pray these journals will be such a blessing to each woman who uses them!<br />
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Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-47438064653374996342014-04-10T20:45:00.002-04:002014-07-22T00:26:10.037-04:00freshly pickedI have been eyeing <a href="http://freshly-picked.com/" target="_blank">Freshly Picked</a> baby moccasins for years, so naturally I was beside myself when presented with an opportunity to try a pair out on my Evyn girl.<br />
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These adorable handmade moccs are the real deal. Durable and sturdy, they are fitted with elastic around the ankles to ensure that they don't slip off baby's feet. They are available in a variety of colors of leather and suede.<br />
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I'm also <a href="http://instagram.com/p/mh6WIcrz17/#" target="_blank">hosting a huge giveaway on Instagram</a> that includes a pair of <a href="http://freshly-picked.com">Freshly Picked</a> moccs as well as a bunch of other treats for mama & baby. The giveaway is running for just a few more hours (ends at midnight tonight!), so get moving if you haven't entered yet!<br />
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I can't even put my feelings about this girl into words... she made me a mom - she gave me the one thing I longed for, the thing that no material gift could top. She is sensitive and confident, beautiful and creative, wise and caring, intuitive and hilarious. She's my mini-me, my daughter, my friend, my calm, my storm.<br />
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<a href="http://www.maeandnolia.com/2009/04/brynlee-elizabeth.html">When Brynlee was born</a>, I had never experienced such a juxtaposition of fierce elation and crippling terror. In the midst of those intense highs and lows, I grew. She's changed me - and I am so grateful that I get to be her mom.<br />
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Since she was a newborn, Brynlee has loved the song "Baby Mine" and there is rarely an instance of a bedtime routine involves a request of anything but "Baby Mine and scratch my back." It is, and always will be, our special thing. One line boasts, "What they'd give, just for the right to hold you." Regardless of my day, my mood, my exhaustion, that line gets me every time. The Lord chose <i>me</i> to mother this soul - out of anyone. I just pray she can learn from me a fraction of what I've learned from her in just five years.<br />
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Happy birthday my lovey girl! Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-32912490784507729242014-04-02T00:10:00.000-04:002014-04-02T00:34:11.867-04:00april goalsI love making lists. Have I said that before? More than making lists, I love crossing items OFF of to-do lists. I know I'm not the only one, but I so often write down something I've already done so I can immediately cross it off.<br />
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I do love lists, but goal lists make my heart flutter and I get all fired up. I actually wrote down goals for this past month (not realizing that recording monthly goals were kind of a blog "thing" lately) and didn't do as well as I had hoped - but I didn't try very hard either.
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- <b>Focus on Lent.</b> - Success, so far! I had never in my life given up anything for Lent, but doing so this year has been exactly what I needed to do. It has been so personal and refreshing and deep. <br />
- <b>Lose 10 lb, workout daily, count calories.</b> - Semi-success - no workouts but I have lost a few lbs! Perhaps when Spring really does decide to come I will be able to do things like, you know, GO OUTSIDE and MOVE AROUND. Sheesh.<br />
- <b>Get up earlier than the kids.</b> - Nope. Probably not going to ever happen, or at least not going to happen until my kids are teenagers and want to sleep til noon. I am a total night owl and NOT a morning person!<br />
- <b>Plan a small group girls' night.</b> - Sadly, I didn't do this yet. We start up small group again next week (we are on a 3 week break) and I can't wait to chat with my girls and make plans.<br />
- <b>Read <a href="http://desperatemom.com/" target="_blank">"Desperate"</a> again.</b> - Started it, but didn't finish. <br />
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I hope my April goals aren't too lofty, especially since we will be on vacation for 1/4 of the month, but I'll give them a go!<br />
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- Continue to focus on Jesus in this season of Lent, and truly understand sacrifice - though it be on such a small scale.<br />
- Spend consistent time in the Word. I'm always striving for this.<br />
- Blog 2-3 times a week.<br />
- Stay focused on my mae + nolia shop responsibilities, deals, and extra in-the-works projects.<br />
- Read 2 books while on vacation (Finish "Desperate" and I'm not sure what else I'll dig into).<br />
- Lose a few more pounds. Mama is determined to fit into all those clothes hanging in her closet & to also start feeling good about herself again!<br />
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I love that Hayley from <a href="http://thetinytwig.com/" target="_blank">The Tiny Twig</a> is now doing a monthly link-up for goal setting inspiration and support. I'll be <a href="http://www.thetinytwig.com/2014/04/01/april-goals/" target="_blank">linking up</a> and pressing on - bring it, April!
Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-13010851962217985092014-04-01T16:16:00.001-04:002014-04-01T16:16:45.484-04:00mae + nolia, one word, & dreamsI'm staring at a blinking cursor on a blank page, not sure where to begin. Welcome to my newly-renamed blog and quiet space. I'm hoping to make this space a lot less quiet from now on.
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mae + nolia? I like naming things. I like when things have deep, deep meaning... almost to a fault. Mae is obviously after my girl, and Nolia alludes to magnolia, which is a favorite spring bloom of mine and, to me, represents a fresh, beautiful start. My <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/maeandnoliashop" target="_blank">shop</a> now has the same name, and this new consistency and simplicity makes my heart happy.<br />
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Life is busy and so full. I love to plan; I <i>need</i> to plan. I never do not have at least five lists going and I'd be lost without my calendars (one in an actual paper planner, one on my phone). I want to do everything - it's never possible, but it's in my nature to just want to do it all. I'm working on prioritizing my plans as they relate to the things that matter most. My family must not suffer in my efforts to prioritize and sort out this mind that is just fit to burst with all I must <i>do</i>. Thankfully, God is so gracious and so good - and He shows me the good He's made in me, despite my tendency to see only the flaws in my nature.<br />
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Despite it being April of this year already, I want to record my word of the year. I've chosen a word for the year, every year, <a href="http://www.maeandnolia.com/search/label/word%20of%20the%20year" target="_blank">for the past few years</a>. This year, it's <b>faithful</b>. I couldn't even begin to recount the instances in the past year that the Lord has been so blatantly faithful. From answers to long-time prayers (and the answers were "yes" answers, nonetheless!), to the grace I've seen extended, to the blessings that have been piled upon me and my family, to the opportunities that have been given (and the close-walking He's required of me through these opportunities) - He's been faithful. Let me say it again: He's been so faithful. I am brought to tears by the simple, yet rich words of the song that declares, <i>"You are faithful, God you are faithful."</i> He's faithful when I'm not. I've had a renewed longing to show Him the faithfulness He's heaped upon me.<br />
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I am so lucky to have friends that understand me and dream with me. Mid-last year, my dear friend Dezirae and I collaborated to start a business that integrated our love for paper goods, organization, lists, notebooks, design, and doing life well. Enter: <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/wellpress" target="_blank">Well-Press Paper<b></b></a>.<br />
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We've set up <a href="http://etsy.com/shop/wellpress" target="_blank">shop</a> and were even able to participate in a <a href="http://www.secondstorie.com/" target="_blank">local indie artisan market</a> in the fall. Our brand focus is not <i>just</i> on well designed, handmade and/or handstitched, high quality paper products - it's a mission and conviction to do LIFE well. Prioritize, then after those priorities are nailed down, do them well. In our brand's development, we've clung to Romans 12:2: <i>Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is - His good, pleasing and perfect will.
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One more thing: I'll be hosting an <a href="https://www.blogger.com/instagram.com/maeandnolia" target="_blank">Instagram (I'm @maeandnolia)</a> giveaway next week to "celebrate" my rebrand. It's going to be a "fun things for both mama and baby" giveaway - with a handful of lovely shops participating (which may or may not include <a href="http://freshly-picked.com/" target="_blank">Freshly Picked</a> moccasins)!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-71621184093453390812013-10-04T15:56:00.001-04:002013-10-04T15:56:47.414-04:00#influenceconf - "you are not the hero of your story"Just a week ago I was in Indy at the <a href="http://www.theinfluenceconference.com/">Influence Conference</a>. I'm still processing so much of the conference. I loved participating in the market, the speakers and workshops deeply stirred my heart, and I was able to spend sweet quality time with <a href="http://beautifullyesotericlife.blogspot.com/">new friends</a> and <a href="http://fragileandbright.com/">old</a>.<br />
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Out of the entire time there, I think that the sentence that is most etched into my soul was spoken by <a href="http://thesweetwaterblog.com/">Ellen</a> during her workshop: "You are not the hero of your story." I was so freed by those words - to be reminded that I am loved & known by Jesus and my words are a vessel to bring Him glory. Always. I was reminded that God <i>gives</i> us our passions, so pursuing them is nothing but the act of glorifying Him. Oh, and Ellen, you have a new <strike>stalker</strike> admirer. I was, and am, so extremely inspired by you and the hero of <i>your</i> story.<br />
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I'm still a bit overwhelmed (even after the fact) by the entire experience and I haven't fully unpacked my mind. I'm grateful to have been covered with inspiration and wisdom and ideas and truth. And I sure was glad to come home to my littles - as much as it was so good for me to get away, 4 days was entirely too long to be away from them. We'll be spending this weekend celebrating Evyn's 1st birthday - I'm at a loss as to how this is happening already.Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-8041848733941829352013-09-25T00:32:00.002-04:002013-09-25T00:32:34.443-04:00currently<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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the <a href="http://www.theinfluenceconference.com/" target="_blank">Influence Conference</a>. And also feeling quite throw-up-nervous. One day left. NBD.</div>
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New Girl. I actually finished the second season in about a day as I worked on jewelry for the conference this past weekend. I am convinced those actors are actually their characters IRL and want to be their friends. I need all the advice on how to deal with "street youths" that I can get! </div>
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purple shampoo once a week or so. I went back to blond a few months ago (oh yes I did) and everyone kept mentioning the elusive purple shampoo that combats brassiness. I bought, used, and was convinced. I'm just now wondering how it's taken me 30 years to even know about this stuff's existence. I've been using <a href="http://www.matrix.com/our-products/haircare/total-results/color-care/so-silver-shampoo" target="_blank">this one</a> and getting great results.<b> </b></div>
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"Who's that girl? It's Mae!" to Evyn, and to the tune of the New Girl theme song. Obsessed.<b> </b></div>
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I'm not even sure I can describe my feelings about the upcoming <a href="http://www.theinfluenceconference.com/">Influence Conference</a>.<br />
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In just a few words I'd say I am insanely nervous, excited, and hopeful. I wasn't able to attend the conference last year because of Evyn's birth a few days prior, so I bought my ticket for this year immediately after last year's conference. Let's just say my anticipation has been growing for exactly a year now. I'm looking forward to the plethora of information and beauty and inspiration and things to soak in. I'm not the biggest social butterfly, so I'm hoping I'll be able to just take it all in, relax, and enjoy myself without worrying about the kids at home and letting my nerves get the best of me.<br />
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- Meeting new friends & the <a href="http://www.theinfluenceconference.com/2013/05/speakers.html">speaker lineup</a>. Also, spending time with my buddy <a href="http://wardfamilyramblings.wordpress.com/">Ashley</a>. She gets me, and her presence will put me at ease. </div>
- The Sashes Market - I fully intend on spending lotsa money on all the pretty things there! I'm also going to be a vendor in the market, and I'll be bringing a big stash of <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/thepoppychain">my jewelry</a>.
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Let's just delve right in. This has been a busy, BUSY season in my life. It's funny, I feel like once school starts things will actually calm down- probably because we will actually have a set schedule. But, who am I kidding? I'll probably still be running around like a crazy person, because that's how I do.
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My first VeryJane deal went super well, yet I did pull my first all-nighter of my whole life finishing up as my deadline loomed. So a few weeks later, I got the itch again, and here I am- currently I'm taking a break from cutting and ironing, in preparation to again make over 150 headbands for my second deal, which ended a few days ago. But bonus! As I sew the night (and early morning) away, Netflix comes to the rescue! I am an expert on many things now, thanks to Netflix, including Taylor Swift, Auschwitz, nursery schools in NYC, homebirths, and I also mastered the first season of New Girl and the entire series of Felicity. I've also listened to many o' sermon, podcast, and my entire iTunes playlist so many times that listening to them now brings me to the point of nausea. And yet, I love it all. I love growing my business, making some money, and feeling like I am contributing financially. It's stressful but fun.
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Speaking of <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/thepoppychain?ref=si_shop">my shop</a>, there have been a few more exciting things unfolding. I prayed so hard for my business to grow. I prayed that just ONE opportunity would come up. Most of all, I prayed that God would reveal Himself to me through even my business and keep my heart and intentions focused solely on Him. Not focusing on money, popularity, success, or my own skills and creativity, but ONLY on Him. And, with that mindset, He has graciously chosen to bless me. I need to have daily (sometimes hourly... okay, by the minute) heart-checks to be sure that I am not focused on how many people have favorited my shop or commented on my photos or how many sales I've made- and if I do let myself be consumed with those things, to be serious with God and if my intentions are not right, to request He take everything away from me. I love that He can grow me and change my heart through ANYTHING, even through business, as silly as it may sound. I pray that I consciously need Him every single step of the way.
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The past few weeks have been a little extra stressful with the all my work and endeavors combined with mothering combined with Ryan being out of town all week. He got a new job and is training - so being mom and dad for weeks straight has been hard.
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Also, also. I was a contributor to <a href="http://www.thetetheredcrate.com/home/">The Tethered Crate</a> this past month and I'm giving away a shop credit on <a href="http://www.thetetheredcrate.com/home/2013/08/28/ashley-kirnan-of-poppy-chain/">The Tethered Crate blog</a> - there's still a few days left to enter!
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We had some special visitors this past month. <a href="http://stevensfamilyhope.blogspot.com/">Kerry</a>, Rob, Luke and Lilah stayed for a quick and wonderful visit at the beginning of the month. The next weekend, the <a href="http://wardfamilyramblings.wordpress.com/">Wards</a> came to spend a super awesome few days with us. And then the next weekend, my sweet Sarah from Boston visited for the weekend. Love.
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Then there's my kids... Brynlee is 4 going on 25, Mac is suddenly potty trained, and Evyn is a crawling machine and has two teeth threatening to poke through. How is this all happening all so fast?! I do love it so much though- I love my big kids and I love the reward of them becoming less and less physical "work" and more and more molding and teaching and humor and eye opening wonder. Just the other day, Brynlee randomly said to me, "Mommy, the world is just so interesting!" Oh my sweet girl. Sometimes I feel like I learn way more from them than they learn from me. Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-38807952214342367592013-07-17T22:13:00.002-04:002013-07-17T22:13:36.723-04:00turban headbands a-plentyJust a little heads up- my <a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/155166619/grey-knit-turban-wrap-headband?ref=shop_home_feat" target="_blank">turban style handmade headbands</a> will be featured on <a href="https://veryjane.com/" target="_blank">VeryJane</a> tomorrow for almost 50% off. A limited quantity will be available in 5 colors (black, grey, mustard, coral, and cobalt) and are super soft and comfy. The deal will go live in just a few hours! I'm so excited but oh so nervous.<br />
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I wanted a simple, vintage feel to Evyn's nursery, without too much pink (but still a bit for good measure). I so enjoyed searching for the perfect little trinkets and treasures to make the room special, along with fabrics and baskets (which I'm still on the hunt for ones I love). All of the little shoes and dresses in the room were mine as a baby. I DIYed a few things, repainted things (including the <a href="http://www.embracethespaceblog.com/2009/01/giddy.html">light fixture</a> that we originally put up in Brynlee's nursery in our first house), and continue to swoon over a few things (read: that RUG). I'd be happy to supply any vendor info/DIY details if anyone is interested!<br />
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Lots of happy and fun news to come regarding my <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/thepoppychain">shop</a>. Soon!</div>
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I've added handmade knotted and turban wrap headbands to <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/thepoppychain">my Etsy shop</a>! I'm also offering a coupon code to celebrate. I'm loving these headbands- the knotted ones look especially cute on my girls. They're stretchy and soft and made with love and care (and also made to order).<br />
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I'm learning that I need to find my identity in Christ ALONE. Not in being a mother, wife, friend, daughter... I could go on but I'm pretty sure my point has been made. I need to be <i>confident </i>in my identity. There needs to be no room for fear and uncertainty.<br />
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I'm learning that I need to not only endure this crazy, exhausting, overwhelming season of life I'm in (I love my kids more than life but having three kids three and under has just plain rocked my world way harder than my smug self ever thought it would), but I need to also embrace it. I originally named this blog "Embrace the Space" because I was focusing on embracing the fact that we had moved away from home and I needed to accept where we were <i>physically</i> living and doing life. I feel like the "embracing" sentiment applies more figuratively to me now- it's all so cliche and yet so darn true.<br />
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I'm learning (from reading "Desperate") that one of the most important things I need to do right now is turn off the "voices." Whether it be trying to avoid getting lost on Facebook, choosing to not read every (well-meaning) advice/parenting/spiritual article that is linked in social media, or paring down my blog-read list, it's all been so helpful to me in learning to actually think more for myself and my family, rather than seeing how everyone else does things and going from there. Plus- it's helping me to turn to the Bible for answers first. Who would have thought?! ;) I'm also trying to not turn off my own voice and to stand firm in my convictions. This girl has a long way to go in the confidence realm, but it's slowly building. I'm so grateful for growth.<br />
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I'm also learning <i>who</i> I am. I am getting to know myself in a way that I never have before. God has been so gracious to me in teaching me that so many things about my personality that I've always seen as a flaw or a weakness might actually be HOW HE MADE ME. It seems so very simple, but it all just blows my mind. For example, most people may not see this, but I am (on the inside) very, very shy in many social situations. I've spent most of my life trying to cover that up and act like someone who I'm not (and in the process making myself just look nervous, awkward, or just plain dumb) in such situations. Instead of fighting and hating my shyness, I want to be able to just embrace who I am and focus on that, not on who/what I <i>want</i> to be. I know I can be shy and still be confident at the same time. I do still have the desire to be warm, social, and comfortable- I know deep down these are all qualities that God has allowed me to possess, and I so desire to find a balance of them all. Personalities just captivate me- I love studying people and have been trying so hard to see strong qualities in the people around me as qualities God intends for good, despite how they might be misinterpreted and misused.<br />
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summer activities, weddings, the <a href="http://www.theinfluenceconference.com/" target="_blank">Influence Conference</a> this fall, spending time with the ones we love this summer, weekly playdates with some of my bests, and summer visits from some of my very favorite people.<br />
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We went to the Outer Banks with the Kirnan clan way back in early April. It was just the break we all needed. <br />
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In mid-May, I was able to travel to North Carolina and be present for the birth of my best friend <a href="http://stevensfamilyhope.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Kerry</a>'s new baby girl. God orchestrated it all in such a way that I will never doubt again that He truly does care about EVERY detail of our lives and pays attention to what's important to us. She went into labor literally when I walked in her door and she had her dream birth experience (and met her baby GIRL Lilah Hope!) a mere five hours later. I still get chills just thinking about those few days. It was all so miraculous and surreal. Evyn was my travel buddy and she didn't bat an eyelash at our plane rides, airport waiting, and disrupted schedules. That girl.<br />
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Brynlee finished preschool! She'll be going three days next year and Mac will be going two days. I twitch involuntarily thinking about having to get the kids out the door EVERY morning starting in September.<br />
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Then EIGHT MONTHS OLD. HOW IS THIS POSSIBLE?!<br />
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I stopped blogging for She {hearts} It. I was sad to stop, but I'm feeling the tug to simplify and streamline things right now. I feel like God is nudging me to let go of some of the "extras," and I want to be open to what He might have for me if I am obedient in that.<b> </b><br />
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<a href="http://thesmallthingsblog.com/" target="_blank">The Small Things Blog</a> (yay for Kate's pregnancy! I'm such a stalker), <a href="http://www.itakejoy.com/" target="_blank">I Take Joy</a> (Sally Clarkson, will you come live with me?! I just adore that woman!), and I've really been loving beauty blogs. I tend to go in waves when it comes to blog categories I'm currently interested in- sometimes it's home improvement and design, sometimes it's diy/crafty goodness, sometimes it's fashion, sometimes it's just inspiring words and appreciating the heart of some of the writers out there that inspire me.<br />
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The Lone Bellow, All Sons and Daughters, and The Civil Wars' new single. Too bad we have to wait until August for the rest of the album!<br />
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Aaaand that's quite the conglomeration of thoughts. My brain is relieved. Happy weekend! <br />
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<br />Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-19684621750849709472013-03-26T17:04:00.000-04:002013-03-26T17:04:47.608-04:00NYC in 40 hours & a giveawayWhoo, the past few days have been a whirlwind. My mom-in-law and sis-in-law took a quick-but-full trip to NYC for the weekend to celebrate Leah's golden birthday (which is today). I had never left Evyn for more than a few hours, so leaving her for the weekend (in Ryan and my father-in-law's capable hands) was a little unsettling for me, but I just tried to relax and have fun. Which we SO did.<br />
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My friend Dezirae told me that I must visit <a href="http://www.purlsoho.com/purl" target="_blank">Purl Soho</a>, and she was right. It was an adorable wonderland of all things sew-y. I bought some fat quarters just because.<br />
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Here's a little happy for your Tuesday - <a href="http://sheheartsit.com/for-the-home/frenchpressmornings/" target="_blank">I'm reviewing and giving away TWO PRINTS</a> from <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/FrenchPressMornings" target="_blank">French Press Mornings</a> over at She {hearts} It today. Sweet Jenny is offering a discount code, too. I wish I could win!<br />
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First, I've done yet <a href="http://sheheartsit.com/baby-care/she-still-hearts-nourish-organics/">another review of Nourish Organics</a> over at She {hearts} It. This time, I've reviewed their new <a href="http://www.nourish-organics.com/collections/all/products/organic-grapefruit-wash">organic grapefruit wash</a>, and I'm giving away an 8oz wash! There's a discount code too. Trust me, you're going to want to get your hands on some of this ultra-moisturizing, best-smelling-ever wash.<br />
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Second, little girlfriend FINALLY just got her hair trimmed. For the first time. Did I mention she will be 4 in a few weeks? Yeah.<br />
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Third, I did finally finish the little seat to use at my sewing desk. I wish I had a "before" picture, but just imagine worn red leather and a scuffed, medium-wood finish. And the "after":<br />
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Last, I've been trying to be much more deliberate in taking pictures with my real camera, not just on my phone. So here's a few of my littles to make you smile. The days have been long and often trying lately, but I love these little people with all of my being and we are all growing and changing. Especially me; especially my momma heart. <a href="http://sarahmae.com/2013/03/maybe-your-two-year-old-just-needs-you/">This post</a> especially resonated with me today. God's molding me, and all I needed to do was <i>let</i> Him.<br />
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"<a href="http://desperatemom.com/">Desperate: Hope for the Mom Who Needs to Breathe</a>." A few close momma friends and I are reading along together and discussing the questions at the end of the chapters and on the blog. I can't even tell you what this book is doing to my heart. I feel just drenched in encouragement and determination to be the mother God designed me to be and my children need me to be.
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<b>trying to: </b></div>
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<b>working on: </b></div>
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a cute little seat/bench for my sewing table. My mom pulled it out of the trash on the side of the road and it's in perfect condition- just needed the worn red leather seat covered in pretty fabric and a spray of grey paint. I don't have a before picture, but I'll share the after picture, well, after. :)</div>
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<b>enjoying</b>:</div>
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<b>using: </b></div>
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<b>planning: </b></div>
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some great <a href="http://sheheartsit.com/" target="_blank">She {hearts} It</a> reviews & giveaways to be posted in the next few weeks. Isn't our new design pretty?</div>
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<b>singing: </b></div>
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(from the "Desperate" book) that my mothering needs to be not based on the expectations of our culture, people around me, or even family. It needs to be guided only by scripture. Sally Clarkson has been blowing my momma mind.</div>
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<b>wishing: </b></div>
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I knew exactly when <a href="http://stevensfamilyhope.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">my best friend</a>'s baby was coming so I could guarantee that I will be there when the baby is born (and it is SO a girl - I am convinced, even though they are not finding out until baby comes). I am going to try my very hardest to be there - I'm just praying it all lines up.</div>
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not well in my vow to start running (again). This weekend is go-time. Ryan and I, along with a few others, are doing the Color Run in two months and I need to improve this 13 mile/minute pace nonsense I've got going on here!</div>
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finding a mentor, living out my passions, and truly & confidently embracing all I am called to do and be. </div>
Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-34842131233080991942013-02-27T00:07:00.000-05:002013-02-27T00:08:55.335-05:00playroom prettyThe entryway from our attached garage leads directly into what we've dubbed the playroom. It's a cheery room with the same light grey/taupe walls as the rest of (most of) the downstairs. Toy storage is an issue, and if it were my <i>grumpy mom</i> way, I would have all the toys always put away and there would be no trace of little gremlins in my decor. What a mean mother. But, the toy explosion is inevitable. Oh the toys. We have probably 2/3 of the kids' toys in the basement play area and the rest are in the playroom (minus a handful residing in Brynlee's room).<br />
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So I would like to have our "playroom" still be friendly and a little whimsical, but still mesh with the rest of the downstairs (since it's pretty out in the open) while concealing the overabundance of TOYS. My dear parents agreed to construct some MORE built-ins, this time for the playroom, much like the living room ones that they created to house all my favorite prettiness (these pictures were taken in August so things have changed a bit here and there since then): </div>
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My mom has already whipped up some window treatments in <a href="https://www.fabric.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=0ec13549-befb-461c-b662-3e8e8688e1af">this fabric</a>:</div>
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I'll add some new storage bins like <a href="http://www.landofnod.com/stripes-around-the-cube-bin/f12098">these</a>: </div>
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And the grand finale... I just ordered <a href="http://www.designyourwall.com/store/Lacework---ocean-color-way-by-Amy-Butler-50x152D-pr-5588.html">THIS</a> for a fun accent wall:</div>
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We also desperately need a new light fixture. I'm thinking one that's pretty flush to the ceiling, and I love <a href="http://www.shadesoflight.com/geometric-fretwork-drum-shade-ceiling-light-8-colors.html">this drum shade</a>. I love the pattern, but it may be too much... maybe one in a solid grey would be better. We will see.<br />
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I do have a <a href="http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/product/home-rugs/883098.jsp" target="_blank">rug</a> in the room already (it's the "gold" version). I can't wait to see it all come together in the end.<br />
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I promise to share before & afters. I'm silly over these upcoming changes!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-34371959273373189192013-02-24T22:54:00.000-05:002013-02-24T22:54:03.959-05:00so much happy in a cardboard box: my stitch fix!<div style="text-align: left;">
I had been wanting to try <a href="http://stitchfix.com/sign_up?referrer_id=3049971" target="_blank">Stitch Fix</a> for a long time now. Between being pregnant and now postpartum, I've been nervous to try it. I was afraid to get new clothes since I'm not where I want to be weight wise, but then I've ended up having absolutely nothing to wear that fits me right! So I sucked it up and decided to get clothes that fit my body NOW. Humbling.</div>
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So I filled out my style profile, received my invitation, and ordered my first <a href="http://stitchfix.com/sign_up?referrer_id=3049971" target="_blank">Fix</a>. I checked the front stoop no less than 20 times on the day I thought it would arrive. Turns out, the next day would bring that box with the pretty mint logo on the top.</div>
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I've heard from a few friends who have ordered Fixes that it takes a bit of time (as you order subsequent Fixes and provide feedback) for the stylists to get a feel for your style and preferences. That was SO not the case in my first Fix! I loved EVERY.THING. Which is a wonderful thing... but also a bad thing because the price point of these pieces is not exactly cheap. BUT I don't want to get "cheap" things and I want what I buy to last. <br />
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First up was this Collective Concepts Marci Dot Stripe Tabsleeve Blouse. </div>
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I loved the pattern, sleeves, and unique neckline. But, the fit was kind of awful on me- Ryan's best observation
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Next was this Tcec Bernadette Striped Cardigan.</div>
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This cardigan is so soft and adorable. The sleeves are a little longer, which is always a plus for me. It didn't take long for me to fall in love with this cardigan. And mint + stripes = total keep!</div>
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Next, this Kensie Paulina Stripe Belted Dress.</div>
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I loved this dress. Loved the fit, the way it hid my baby "fluff," the unique sleeves, and the stripes, of course. However, the price was pretty steep ($98!) and I felt like this was something I could find at Forever 21 for MUCH less. Pass.</div>
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Next up, this Natural Life Corinna Striped Dolman Top.</div>
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Last was this Pretty Persuasions Star Print Scarf.</div>
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I love scarves. I loved the texture and color of this scarf. But, stars aren't really my thing and I do have a ton of scarves, so I passed on this one.<br />
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Overall, I was so pleasantly surprised about how great of an experience this Fix was. I truly did love every piece. The fit wasn't so great for the blouse, the dress was a little too expensive, and I wasn't so much a fan of the stars on the scarf. Style wise, my stylist was pretty spot-on. <br />
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I'd love to order a Fix again, and I might wait a few months to see if I drop a few more sizes. I'd hate to get a bunch of new clothes that I soon wouldn't be able to fit into. I'm sure I'll be itching for cute spring tops in a month or so. It was so fun to receive and try on the clothing, and I love the uniqueness of the pieces.<br />
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<span style="color: #45818e;"><b><span style="font-size: large;">Want to try Stitch <span style="font-size: large;">F</span>ix? <a href="http://stitchfix.com/sign_up?referrer_id=3049971" target="_blank">Sign up here</a>! Happy Fixing!</span></b></span></div>
Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-55501379998864085002013-02-19T16:08:00.000-05:002013-02-19T16:08:46.120-05:00randomness in photos<div style="text-align: center;">
Here's the past few weeks in pictures!</div>
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I finally sewed up an infinity scarf with one of the knits that Ashley and I bought <a href="http://www.embracethespaceblog.com/2013/01/weekend-bliss.html" target="_blank">when she visited a few weeks ago</a>. It took me literally 5 minutes. Easiest ever. I used <a href="http://www.putapuredukes.com/2011/09/braided-scarf-tutorial.html" target="_blank">Keight's braided scarf tutorial</a> as a rough guide to get me started. I have the fabric to make a colorblocked one too- it will be cute for spring. </div>
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Valentine's day was low key around these parts. A few little gifts, homemade Valentines, and a quiet (delicious) dinner in for Ryan and me. I was the "special helper" for Brynlee's class at preschool, too- I was just in awe of her the whole time I was in there. How has my little baby turned into a big, gorgeous KID?! One that participates in a classroom setting and sings and follows rules? Wow.<br />
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These girls and I had a sweet night in last weekend, and it was so needed after a week of being cooped up in our sick house. Ryan caught the awful flu and was down and out for over a week. The kids and I managed to avoid it but it was still tough to get through.<br />
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I'm following <a href="http://jonesdesigncompany.com/thoughts/currently-2/" target="_blank">Emily's lead</a> today & sharing some current life randomness.</div>
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<b>loving</b>: </div>
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the few new pillow slipcovers I whipped up using <a href="http://raechelmyers.com/2010/12/easy-peasy-pillow-slipcover-tutorial/" target="_blank">this tutorial</a>. After making the first one, I was embarrassed that I hadn't done these sooner. So easy!</div>
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<b>reading</b>: </div>
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the February issue of Martha Stewart Living. And blogs. My favorites lately: <a href="http://www.thesmallthingsblog.com/" target="_blank">The Small Things Blog</a>, <a href="http://www.thenatos.com/" target="_blank">Hello From the Natos</a>, <a href="http://www.frommygreydeskblog.com/" target="_blank">From My Grey Desk</a>. Also, <a href="http://realitysteve.com/" target="_blank">Reality Steve</a> <i>[hanging head in shame]</i>.</div>
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<b>waiting for</b>: </div>
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the storm we are apparently going to get hit with tonight/tomorrow. We're staying in!</div>
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<b>excited about</b>: </div>
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a girls' night planned for Saturday night. SO needed.</div>
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<b>trying to</b>: </div>
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avoid the flu. Ryan spent two days straight in bed this past week. In the 10 years we've been together, I've never experienced him doing this. It takes a lot to knock that man down. I'm downing vitamins and zicam!</div>
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<b>working on</b>: </div>
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finishing the kids' rooms. They will be so pretty once my plans leave my brain and come into fruition. I can't wait to share - especially Evyn's room! </div>
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<b>enjoying</b>: </div>
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spearmint & orange gummies, gluten free pretzels, and <a href="http://www.enjoylifefoods.com/#page=page-1" target="_blank">Enjoy Life</a> dark chocolate. Compliments of a sick husband on a grocery run. </div>
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<b>using</b>: </div>
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my TURQUOISE stick blender, a Christmas gift from my mom and dad. Smoothies have never been easier to make, cleanup is a snap (especially compared to using a regular blender), and it's pretty. Duh. </div>
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<b>planning</b>: </div>
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<b>singing</b>: </div>
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to <a href="http://allsonsanddaughters.com/" target="_blank">All Sons and Daughters</a>. I like to think I'm the third part of the trio they don't realize that they are in. Haha.</div>
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<b>needing</b>: </div>
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to snuggle this little bundle right now. And she's 4 months old as of Tuesday. <i> [Brain explodes.]</i> </div>
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<b>learning</b>: </div>
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about Biblical suffering and the hope & freedom that comes with it. Our pastor is doing an amazing series on 1 Peter right now.</div>
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<b>wishing</b>: </div>
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there was a little more time each day to work on projects and snuggle babies and play with big kids. Priorities.</div>
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<b>doing</b>: </div>
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pretty well at dropping the baby poundage. And I ran a 5k on Tuesday. My minutes/mile ratio is highly embarrassing, but I did it. In 27 degree weather. And then wheezed for a few hours afterward.</div>
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<b>dreaming of</b>: </div>
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a sandy tropical beach. Someday!</div>
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Congrats to pretty <a href="http://behindthescenes-blog.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Liz</a> on winning my Winter Essentials giveaway! </div>
Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-59884420580783511132013-02-01T15:32:00.000-05:002013-02-01T15:32:09.165-05:00peaceToday is the type of day I just yearn for peace. Just a few moments of forgetting my to-do list and breathing.<br />
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My heart is broken for my many friends who are struggling right now, physically and emotionally. A dear friend lost her mother this week. It seemed like all I heard for days was bad news. Worry and anxiety have sneaked up on me and I've let them in the door of my mind. <br />
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I wish I could fix it all. I know I can't, but I still want to. <br />
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My words are not flowing easily from my head to my fingertips. All I do know is that I want to learn from these times and pray I turn to Jesus for comfort and strength; for me and for all my dear ones who just need peace right now.<br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">The Lord gives strength to his people; the Lord blesses his people with peace. Psalm 29:11
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On a lighter note, my giveaway ends tomorrow! <a href="http://www.embracethespaceblog.com/2013/01/winter-essentials-giveaway.html">Go enter</a>. :)Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-46161906398818919592013-01-28T14:47:00.000-05:002013-01-28T14:47:50.072-05:00weekend blissOn Thursday, my dear friend <span id="goog_990760236"></span><a href="http://www.blogger.com/">Ashley<span id="goog_990760237"></span></a> and her sweet Piper made the 6ish hour drive up to NY to pay us a visit. They stayed until early yesterday and we were sure to fill our time with non-stop chatting, late night projects, kid entertaining, multiple Joanns runs (one of which we lugged the kids along on in the snow and after we got home I had to fend off a panic attack- but it was worth it), eating out, and relaxing. Ashley pounded out a necklace and an infinity scarf, and I made a necklace and got 3/4 through crocheting a mini infinity scarf for Piper to match the one I (kind of accidentally) made for Brynlee. <br />
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<i><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">- t</span>ired but happy friends on a mission for project supplies - </span></i></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: x-small;">-<span style="font-size: x-small;"> </span>my new print from <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/littlethingsstudio?ref=seller_info" target="_blank">this shop</a> - </span></i></div>
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<i> </i>I love precious time with friends who just "get" me... Ashley just one of those friends. And we treasure quality time instead of quantity time with each other... even though every time we do see each other we brainstorm when the next <i>few</i> times we can get together will be. I have to say too, she is one of the cutest pregnant ladies I have ever seen. Not fair. Nevertheless, I'm so grateful for you, Ash! I love how God brings us the right people at the right time. Wow, so blessed.</div>
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Don't forget to enter my <a href="http://www.embracethespaceblog.com/2013/01/winter-essentials-giveaway.html" target="_blank">giveaway</a>! Happy Monday.</div>
Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-60810921946379684102013-01-26T16:12:00.000-05:002013-01-26T16:12:15.090-05:00winter essentials giveawayGiveaway time!<br />
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I'm so excited! I thought I would do a fun giveaway of some of my favorite and essential items this winter.<br />
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1. <b>Pretty teardrop necklace.</b> I may/may not have this necklace in mint and coral as well.<br />
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2. <b>Touchscreen compatible gloves.</b> Because it's freezing outside but I still need to maneuver my iphone. Obv. <br />
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3. <b>Cutest journal. </b> I am so obsessed with pretty journals, and OF COURSE the notebook paper inside must be college-ruled. Which it is. I've been scribbling lists and <a href="http://shereadstruth.com/" target="_blank">She Reads Truth</a> notes in mine. With a black pen - my preference.<br />
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4. <b>Starbucks gift card.</b> Five bucks. Buy yourself a drink and a half (ha) on me. I've been warming up/waking up with the vanilla spice latte made with soymilk.<br />
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5. <b>Kiehl's Lip Balm #1.</b> This lip balm has been my favorite for years and protects my kisser in these cold temps.<br />
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I haven't been sponsored in any way in doing this giveaway, I just love STUFF and love sharing the awesome stuff that I've discovered. And, I love everyone who reads my blog, which is mostly people I know IRL so I may even be able to deliver it to the winner in person. BONUS!</div>
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<script src="//d12vno17mo87cx.cloudfront.net/embed/rafl/cptr.js"></script>Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com21tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-13627504046017999712013-01-22T16:21:00.000-05:002013-01-22T16:21:33.246-05:00tuesday brain dumpBrain dump time! Apparently my new blogging motto is "all or nothing" because I'm either silent for a month or word-vomit typing. Here we go.<br />
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- <b>Blogging</b>. I love it, need to do it, am obsessed with reading blogs, and still use nursing sessions to devour my google reader list, saving my favorite blogs for last. I SO WANT TO BLOG every day or even every other... or heck once a week. Obviously it's not been something that's possible for the past few months (I don't think I really need to explain WHY) and I keep talking about how I want to do it and whine about it when I don't. So I AM going to do it more. For me and to continue to preserve this little space. Oh and I am just giddy over my little blog makeover... <a href="http://ellieandaudrey.blogspot.com/p/tank-digital-design.html">Molly</a> is the bomb. If you're looking for a sweet soul to make your blog the prettiest, look no further.<br />
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- <b>Giveaway</b>. Coming so soon! I have the goods gathered, now just need to photograph them. Look for my "Winter Essentials" giveaway by the end of this week!<br />
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- <b>A-dubs</b>. <a href="http://wardfamilyramblings.wordpress.com/">My girl Ashley</a> is coming to visit me on Thursday! I am SO EXCITED! I haven't seen her since the summertime when I was 26 weeks pregnant with Evyn, and when I see her in a few days she will be 30 weeks pregnant with her baby boy. Crafting and chatting and coffee... hurry up and get here, Ash! <br />
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- <b>Projects</b>. SO MANY IN MY MIND. I want to do all of them. Mostly house stuff and some half-done, started, or I have gathered supplies for but haven't started. I am crawling out of the post-baby funk (which was not that bad this time around but has left me desperate to take some time and create things... ALONE) and am so inspired to do ALL THE PROJECTS. But then I get overwhelmed with all I want to do and then am left paralyzed. And then the guilt of the presence of unfinished/unstarted baby books and picture-taking-slacking wells up... baby steps. Care for my babies first, but take baby steps in the direction of not losing myself in the craziness of this season. <br />
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- <b>An effort to look human</b>. Just a few little attempts to look a little more decent in the day-to-day. I'm a little late jumping on this bandwagon, but wow, is dry shampoo awesome. I just bought the cheap Suave kind, and I love it. The smell is amazing and it makes my hair feel so fresh. I'm also really into light grey nail polish lately and finally got my hands on some. (<a href="http://www.amazon.com/OPI-Lacquer-Touring-Collection-Thoughts/dp/B005GTNOMG">OPI french quarter for your thoughts</a>)<br />
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- <b>DF/GF</b>. <a href="http://www.embracethespaceblog.com/2009/08/dairy-free-way-to-be.html">I went dairy-free when Brynlee was about 4 months old</a> and <a href="http://www.embracethespaceblog.com/2011/03/dairy-deja-vu.html">when Mac was about the same age</a>. I exclusively nursed them, and both were showing signs of intolerance. So now that Evyn is almost 4 months old, I figured I had better just go ahead and cut myself off from dairy as a precaution. Now I confess, I also want to start shedding this baby weight (everyone told me it would be the hardest with #3 and BOY ARE THEY RIGHT) and I lost so much when I went off of dairy with the others so I'm hoping this helps. I also have dropped gluten because I read it can help with your skin amongst other things. SO, since Friday I haven't had a bit of dairy or gluten and feel fab. I don't even feel deprived when I have a lunch that looks like this:<br />
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The black things in the middle are chia seeds, and I'm not sure why I waited so long to incorporate them into my life. <a href="http://www.mychiaseeds.com/Articles/Top10ChiaBenefits.html">The benefits</a> are awesome! I just add a tablespoon here and there in foods that I can easily put them in (smoothies, peanut butter, salads).
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- <b>Running</b>. Remember when I <a href="http://www.embracethespaceblog.com/2011/12/131-teamfmf.html">ran a half marathon</a>? Well, after that I took a YEAR off of running. Sadness. I've been wanting to get out there again, but the combo of kids & weather & no treadmill has, um, delayed my efforts. Then, <a href="http://raechelmyers.com/">Raechel</a> threw out an idea to put together a team to keep each other accountable in the running department. Yes! I was able to get out a few times since then (weekends and 60 degree January days are my friends) but the high today is 12 degrees so I think I'll spend the rest of the day snuggled in with my babies. At least I have the will, right? I'm hoping this push to run will help with the whole losing the baby weight endeavor, too.<br />
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<b>Brain dump over. Have a happy Tuesday, friends.</b>
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<br />Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13012613927259103615noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6690588537401151105.post-86044698579418119292013-01-02T15:17:00.000-05:002014-04-01T14:58:00.363-04:00one word - enough.<a href="http://www.embracethespaceblog.com/2012/01/one-word.html">Last year (and the year before)</a>, I chose a word for the year. It's a word to inspire, strive for, encourage.<br />
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Last year, my word was <b><i>patience</i></b>. I scribbled it on my little chalkboard canister and it stared at me from my kitchen window sill all year.<br />
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I can't say I was super successful in becoming the most patient & kind girl this year... but I did try. I also lectured my kids quite enough on how important it is to be so... yet I'm not sure I was a living, breathing example most of the time.<br />
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This year, I majorly struggled to find "my" word. I felt like nothing could truly encompass the magnitude of what I wanted to change and to dwell on. <br />
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Finally, it hit me: <i><b>enough</b></i>.<br />
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I have, for FAR too long, tried to be enough.<br />
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Patient enough. Neat enough. Kind enough. Organized enough. Friend enough. Mother enough. Wife enough. Daughter enough. Steadfast enough. Creative enough. Involved enough. Loud enough. Quiet enough. Supermom enough. Skinny enough. Healthy enough. Talented enough. Strong enough. Cool enough. Brave enough. Loving enough. Confident enough. Funny enough. Quick-thinking enough. Interesting enough. Pretty enough. Smart enough. Witty enough. Tender-hearted enough. Calm enough. Wise enough. Leader enough. Determined enough. Gracious enough. Giving enough. Stylish enough. Graceful enough. Having-it-together enough.<br />
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GOOD enough.<br />
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PERFECT ENOUGH.<br />
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Is that enough adjectives for you? I really could go on and on.<br />
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For far too long, I have tried to be <b>enough<i></i></b> without Jesus. Yes, I believe in Him, trust Him, and follow Him, but I still want to do it ALL on my own. It's time for me to let HIM be enough (because, duh, He <i>is</i>) and <i>accept</i> that I AM enough <b>WITH</b> Him.<br />
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[Side note - ever write or say a word so many times that your brain plays tricks on you and you question if that word is even a real word? I'm there. Ha.]<br />
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I'm going to keep it real here. Yesterday, I was talking to Brynlee about New Year's resolutions. I explained that some people like to think of things they want to be better at for the new year, and that I wanted to "Be more patient with you guys, exercise more, and..." Pause.<br />
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"And not scream at us so much?"<br />
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Ummm. Why yes. Face palm. I laughed, but, HELLO! Wake up call.<br />
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Honestly, I've gone through my days without committing them to Him. I get so fed up and frustrated and scream at my kids after I've refused to ask Him to help me in the patience department. I've moved forward with (small) business endeavors without committing them to Him, or even praying about them. I've tried to solve problems without Him. I've come to conclusions about myself (most of them not very nice) without consulting Him first and without remembering what He thinks of me (I'm His <i>treasured possession</i> {Deut. 26:18} - whaaat?!). I've forgotten that I don't have to be everything - and also try to be and do everything without Him. If I'm rejected, the wind is just knocked out of me. If I feel un -loved, -wanted, -admired, -successful, etc, I am just out for the count. I need to cry out to Jesus that I am not enough and BELIEVE that He is enough, before I attempt something (like getting out of bed in the morning, for example) and cry out to Him that He is enough if what I've hoped for or hoped to be fails. I need to not let all the other voices cloud my mind (even well-meaning ones) and first listen to the ONE voice that matters. I spend so much time comparing myself to others who seem to have it together so much better than I do (or envying the people that don't have it together but are okay with that!), or anyone else that is more "<u> </u>" (fill in the blank!) than me. Blogging, pinterest, social media, and all the things that I let influence me pile up. Everyone else may truly BE better at me than everything but HE is enough and I am enough only because of Him.<br />
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And so, my word will stare at me from the window sill all year long. I have to say - I probably wrote and re-wrote the word "enough" on that canister with that stinkin chalk pen fifteen times until it looked as "perfect" as it was going to get. Funny (and symbolic) how I can't even make my word LOOK enough in my eyes.<br />
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I picked a word that I know I can never truly be. But God will be enough and He will make me enough. So freeing. I'm so excited.<br />
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Happy New Year friends! Anyone else want to share their word for the year? I've noticed a lot of word-sharing on blogs in the past few days. Love.<br />
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In a week or so, I'm going to be getting a blog makeover (I can barely contain my excitement) and to celebrate I'm going to do a giveaway! It's going to be a giveaway containing some of my essentials for/things I've been loving so far this winter. This is gonna be fun. Bring it, 2013.
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